Frugal Beautiful

The Importance of the Thank You Note

Posted on: January 25, 2011

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Want to be considered one of the savviest, most thoughtful people in your circle of friends?  Look no further!  While I could extol the virtues of thoughtfulness via post, or implore you that thank you notes are the life blood of generousity (and you really have no excuse to be lazy), I’m not going to.  Simply put, if you don’t have the courtesy to say “thanks” for a nice dinner out, a kind gift or the lending of a helping hand- you probably won’t learn now!  On the other hand, for those of you who love receiving gifts and love the people you get them from (or even if you don’t) and want to keep them coming, read on…

Why do I LOVE the Thank You note?  Simply put:

-It is a simple way to express your gratitude for a gift, that typically gets a big reaction.  I have received thank you notes for my thank you notes- no kidding!

-In this economy, if someone can afford a $50 gift card, or even a $5 gift card for your birthday, you can spend the 44 cents in postage to send a note.

-Notes are a quick, cheap way to ensure that someone’s effort or gift was appreciated.  Sending a note also ensures that they will not regret being nice to you and may do it again sometime.  Seriously? Gratitude is an investment in others and mostly, an investment in yourself and relationships that enrich your life.

-Thank you notes=an excuse to buy adorable stationary!

But what to say?

It’s simple, use your brain for proper grammar, and your heart for proper wording!

Even if the gift may be re-gifted or wasn’t exactly what you wanted, you can still express a genuine sentiment that doesn’t come off as crass or impersonal without even bringing up the gift.  Simply state that you appreciated their thoughtfulness, and that they took the time and energy to give you a gift.  Still can’t think of anything to say? Google some templates!  Here are some resources:


…OH, and e-cards are NOT the same as thank you notes.  Either take the easy road and write an email or make it great with a handwritten note.  Sending an e-card means more work for the recipient and can sometimes make you look lazy!


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